In 2016, I had one of those bad split seconds. I was using a very sharp knife and I slipped. The knife went all the way through my left hand, between the metarcarpal bones just below the 4th finger and pinky. It could have been a lot worse, but as it was I nicked a tendon and apparently sustained some nerve damage. Suffice it to say, it was a terrifying experience for a person who needs a great deal of sensitivity and facility in her hands to do her work. And to play the piano. I remember leaning over the sink, with shock beginning to set in and ‘WHAT HAVE I DONE’ blazing through my being.
I have a wonderful husband, who reacted with clarity and competence. There were 7 hours in the emergency room, where I had an extended chance to begin applying what I know from the Alexander Technique. I acknowledged where I was and what state I was in. I used my skills of attention and intention to allow the doctors to do their work. I asked myself to not hyperfocus on my hand, but to ‘rise to my observation deck’ and stay spatially aware. I asked myself to refrain from tightening in a way that would interfere with their work and with my overall condition. I didn’t need to add to my own pain and stress, by resisting what was happening via indulging in self-recrimination (and believe me, I can be a pro at that one). Or via the physical form of resistance, tensing as if to hold back from/ push the whole thing away.
I’m a firm believer in pulling in all resources. I have a friend who does a lovely form of energy work. She came over and held my hand for an hour for the first three days, an enormous help. I love tai chi and was lucky that I could practice my long form every day. That afforded me a remarkable experience that I’ll describe below*. I received invaluable work from my colleagues. My Alexander skills came completely to the fore: staying present, asking myself not to tighten, asking myself to open to my full physical volume, asking for mobility and flow through my entire self. I’m convinced that my combined resources, layered on the foundation of my Alexander training, spared me a great deal of pain.
It’s amazing to watch the soft tissue heal. Such clever bodies we have. I did my best to stay out of the way of the system performing its own repairs and to facilitate the process as best I could. I began my own therapy immediately, initially with quiet intention, asking for mobility as soon as possible. I consider the piano to be my most exacting physical therapist. It informed me exactly what kind of damage had occurred to my hand (non-dominant). It indicated where I would need to ask for greater mobility, more engagement and much more precise facility than in less complex activities. At fir
I found myself in a very quiet, clear place of greatly amplified mindfulness. I returned to teaching a week after the injury, unable to do many things I would normally do in lessons. Yet I believe I was teaching at a much better level, as I had to rely entirely on the most subtle and powerful aspects of Alexander Technique, the ability to non-do (refrain from any slightest tendency to push, try or force) and to direct (allowing clear spatial intention to inhabit my whole self).
So now it’s seven years later and I can do everything I need to do, which shows just how lucky I was. I’d hoped to escape without nerve damage, but I didn’t. Nerves heal very slowly; it’s taken about five years for the numbness to almost completely depart. I continue to joyfully anticipate the possible and accept the reality of the lingering restriction from the scar. By continuing to ask for more, I have indeed been able to upgrade my piano coordination to better than before the accident. The whole experience has proved to me what a powerful ally the Alexander Technique is in dealing with and recovering from an injury. That’s just one of the many gifts it can give us.
*If you’d like to read it, here’s my tai chi story: the day after my injury, I was going slowly and mindfully through the lovely version of a long Yang form that I learned from the great teachers at the Twin Cities T’ai-Chi Ch’uan Studio. I was a long way into the form when I began trembling violently and breathing in a labored manner. I was initially frightened and then had a clarion realization that something was trying to move through me and that I had best let it do its work. I did my best to continue while shaking and breathing like a freight train. My eyes closed themselves and I had the powerful sense of being taken over. My left hand started to sparkle – that’s what it felt like — as if it were surrounded by a shimmering light. I got all the way through the 150 postures, then lay on the ground shaking and feeling waves of gratitude course through me, gratitude for all my teachers and for everything I’ve learned. I felt positive that I would heal perfectly. Then I felt a radiant calm. I stood up and felt like I’d had a fabulous Alexander lesson. What exactly happened? Who knows, but if I had to describe my hunch, I’d say that the mysterious chi force decided to move the trauma out of my system, then and there. And it left me. It brings tears to my eyes just remembering it now.
Seven years later, I can report that the experience opened a channel within me that has continued to blossom and open new worlds.
**My tai chi journey began with Richard Son Su Meyer of Great River Taoist Center Twin Cities. I am currently training with him again.